Since the early 90s, from around 1991, running has become an important part of my life. That’s practically 15 years of running 4, 5 or 6 times each week, all year round. I must have run a total of more than 30 thousand kilometres!
Running has kept me fit and in good shape. I’ve managed to run 7 marathons (all in Malta), various half marathons, and dozens of races. I’ve become actively involved in an athletics club, also editing it’s official magazine for two years, and setting up and maintaining its website. There were lots of ups and downs, various injuries that kept me away from training, but also a good number of memorable runs, especially those races where I did well. Through running I have also acquired many friends, with whom I’ve shared numerous training runs as well as friendly rivalry during races.
When I moved to Brussels in Belgium, various things in my life had to change, and this would also include my running lifestyle. In summer it’s fantastic, with long hours of sunshine and comfortable temperatures. But winter is the exact opposite – it’s cold, often rainy, and dark for most of the time except Saturdays and Sundays, each with a 7-hour window of daylight available. For over a year I managed to keep my running schedule, and also do some races in Malta on my various week-end visits there, but the enjoyment was lacking, mostly because I was doing all my training alone, often early in the dark, freezing early mornings of Brussels.
As I prepared for my 8th marathon, to be held in Malta on 6th March 2005, I finally realised that I was no longer enjoying myself running. More than that, running had become a chore, something that I had to do, and that was conditioning a good part of the rest of my activities. Any activity that cropped up, a social event in the evening, a working trip to Luxembourg, a concert, a weekend trip to visit my family in Malta, practically anything whatsoever, would wreak havoc with the strict weekly running plan required to prepare properly for an event like the marathon.
At one stage I realised that I was a slave to my running. It had come to form too large a part of my life. My weekends were dominated by two runs, one of them an energy sapping long run of close to 3 hours, that I had to do in order to prepare for the marathon. After that, I hardly had any time and energy to go out and do anything else. I ended up wishing that I would suffer from a muscular strain or similar type of injury that would prevent me from “having” to run. It was clearly an unhealthy situation.
I kept running right up to my injury, in fact. It was then that I took a drastic decision. There are other activities just as enjoyable as running, and that can be undertaken at leisure, and not under self-imposed duress. I’m taking a break from sports, to allow my hamstring to recover its full strength. After that, I hope to start again doing physical activity, with an important difference. The training schedule will be more relaxed and more flexible. The flexibility will also involve type of activity, now hopefully to include cycling and swimming along with running, and only when I have the chance and when I feel like it. The idea is to enjoy myself and to maintain a reasonable level of fitness, which does not need to be that of competition.
I may gain a couple of kilos this way, but I will also gain the freedom to:
• wake up at a decent hour, enjoy a cup of coffee and have a relaxed start to the day
• enjoy a night out with friends without worrying about my training schedule
• use the weekend to travel and discover new places
• go out cycling and explore the surroundings of Brussels
• enjoy playing a game of football whenever the opportunity crops up, without worrying about risking forfeiting my “sacred” training schedule
Running is a fantastic activity, but it needs to be limited. You should either do lots of competitive running for a limited period of your life, or for limited periods of your life, or just casually for your entire life. Mine will be a mix of these three options, depending on my mood.
This is my 2006 new year’s resolution. For me, a new life begins at 43. Happy New Year!